MEET THE PARENTS
I. don't . want. to. meet. your. parents!
Is it wrong to not want to meet your boyfriend's parents? I am currently unemployed and couch surfing at my boyfriends home. I am willing to move in with my mom and end it with my boyfriend because I have an overwhelming amount of anxiety about meeting his parents. Long story short They lived abroad for the majority of our relationship. He has met my family. I have exchanged Xmas gifts to them through him. Never met or talked with his parents. The boyfriend and I have had a very hard relationship (lies, no cheating) I dont feel like we are getting married and dont feel like putting in the effort to meet them if he can't even be honest with me for more than 6 months at a time. What would you do in my shoes?
Is it wrong to not want to meet your boyfriend's parents? I am currently unemployed and couch surfing at my boyfriends home. I am willing to move in with my mom and end it with my boyfriend because I have an overwhelming amount of anxiety about meeting his parents. Long story short They lived abroad for the majority of our relationship. He has met my family. I have exchanged Xmas gifts to them through him. Never met or talked with his parents. The boyfriend and I have had a very hard relationship (lies, no cheating) I dont feel like we are getting married and dont feel like putting in the effort to meet them if he can't even be honest with me for more than 6 months at a time. What would you do in my shoes?
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Comment by Jerry Strong Heart on October 27, 2009 at 3:51pm - There is an Inner Voice Here.......Too.......It Seems........!
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Comment by Zoe on October 27, 2009 at 3:11pm - someone once told me that people lie because they are ashamed about themselves. I always remember that when I get lied to, it helps me to make sense of whoever is doing the lying, and not take it personally.
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Comment by Zoe on October 27, 2009 at 3:05pm
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It might help you to understand him better if you see where he comes from. Personally I'd meet them out of curiosity. It would not make me feel more committed. If I felt like ending it then I;d just end it, even if I was best buddies with his parents.
If you don't meet them then it might cause resentment. I don't think you've got anything to lose by meeting anyone, parents or whatever. I mean you've already given them Xmas presents, they will be a tad confused if you don't bother to meet them, not that that is any reason to meet them, just saying...
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Comment by vegsoulsista on October 27, 2009 at 2:58pm - Thanks for sharing that I am in deep thought on what to do.
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Comment by heathers_sea on October 27, 2009 at 2:40pm - Go with your gut feeling... if you're feeling this much anxiety over it there's probably a valid reason. I was dating a guy... we lived together, I moved back home for the summer and planned on moving back to his city. I had so much debilitating anxiety over moving back that I decided to break up with him and felt better immediately. Take some time to think about what you're feeling, and what you truly want to do.
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