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Day 2 has been rough emotionally- My MIL (very passive agressive & always makes me out to be the monster just like my family does-somehow I draw abusive people) told my husband to remind me of something that I had already discussed with her and told her I would handle it. Instead of calling me, emailing me or messaging me on FB, she always puts my husband in the middle causing me and him to argue. I'm so sick of her passive aggressive behavior- I totally went off on her today and let her know that if she needed to discuss something with me that she needed to call me, message me or email ME directly not use my husband as a go between because it makes it look like he is taking her side on things like they are ganging up on me and I do not deal well with that. Anyway, of course she got mad at me for asking her to come directly to me, she said I read too much into things and that she didn't like my attitude and I was like I don't care if you don't like my attitude- anyway I hung up on her- I think it's just repressed issues because she has never accepted me as her DIL and has always made rude comments to me and behind my back and today was not the day to mess with me since I haven't eaten anything and I am emotionally sensitive right now. I'm going through alot with issues with my family mistreating me and now her- I'm so sick of being around people that don't have my best interest at heart but instead are always abusing me. I'm not putting up with it anymore. And I kind of feel like my husband took his Mom's side, but either way me and him exchanged some words with him saying unnecessary things that he shouldn't and some curse words- I told him I would NOT put up with that behavior and that from now on for him not to do her dirty work for her- she is a grown woman and can make her own phone calls and emails. Anyway, I'm really upset right now- I know that my MIL always blames others and never takes constructive critism- it's always the other persons fault. I'm sure she is at the office right now running her mouth about me - she loves to gossip anyway, so good it will give her something to do. I think I am going to go take a nice salt bath with some candles.

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Jessica Faith Comment by Jessica Faith on October 28, 2009 at 7:00pm
Oh my... sugar let me just pass on a word of encouragement... You have to remove your self from this drama if you're going to find determination and peace on this cleanse. You need to be honing into your body right now and supporting this physical endeavor with as much mental, emotional, and spiritual support you can. This requires presence and breath. The drama associated with your MIL is toxic and perhaps it should stay away until you are prepared to take it head on. I really hope you stick with your cleanse. I was so so so incredibly fulfilled with the outcome of mine. If you're ever interested I would share some words about that... just stay strong and hone in.

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