When battling addictions, usually the impulse is to not only go cold turkey and ignore process (which distances one form others, and generally gives poor results long term) but to judge others for participating in the same habits they are QUITTING, OR in NEEDING some kind of acceptance on their terms.
One can drop the bad TAKER habits.....but
what about wanting acceptance from TAKER culture? Or needing some NEW kind of acceptance.
How do people commonly get out a hole? by adopting some kind of new bottled way of thinking to "break out" of the previous habits..and all of a sudden they are the expert, they got the goods, and everyone ELSE is wrong.
Imagine what the world would be if you could liberate the energy of condemnation.
Personally I think the most absurd way of changing others is using the concept: 'slow-suicide'.
People aren't worried about their credit card debt, so they arn't worried about this I am thinkin'
If one really wanted to scare someone away from a less desirable activity...these days you have to raise the ante a bit to...like..'quick-suicide'. or explain that it really isn't working for them, may times it IS serving some kind of function or crutch.
personally I try to stay away from messing with people with issues,
or taking crutches form cripples.
Everybody happy.
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