My only frustration with the raw date site is that there isn't anything for us weirdo alternatives (polyamorous), who are already in relationships, but always open to more relationships. I can't bring myself to sign up for those sites because it feels a bit like deception. They see me and think "Oh, he looks so cute!" and then they read my profile where I state that I'm married.... and they think I'm a swinger (yuck!) or cheating (even when I say that she knows). Meh... :)
Matt
Comment by Chris Carlton on April 24, 2009 at 9:34pm
Actually I go right and she goes left. Maybe it has to do with the side of the rode they drive on over there??? ha ha It's nice to get this out there. Love you Zoe.
I'm sure Chris won't mind me sharing that here coz I'm sure all you nosey buggers are wondering the same thing...
when we met we fell in love but it wasn't lovers love, it was brother/sister love, but we didn't realise and we were both a long time single (me 5 years eek!) so we naturally tried to make it into a romance...I mean, what else are you supposed to do ? This only caused us stress until we woke up and realised that everything was amazing between us as long as we didn't try to make it not something it wasn't. As Chris put it once, in the bedroom he goes left and I go right, that's all there is to it, simple as, so trying to have sex with each other was like trying to shag your best mate or your brother, it just didn't work.
So now we have all the good bits of our relationship, i.e. our friendship, the way we buzz off each other's energy, our closeness and intimacy of thought and conversations, our mutual support, but without the stuff that didn't work.
Moral of the tale - don't turn friendships into romances, and romances into friendships.
And breaking up doesn't have to be nasty, it can be beautiful, ours was.
Speaking as Chris's ex wife, he is quite a catch so all you single ladies out there better had get on that site and snap him up before someone else does, Chris is an awesome guy ;)
Comment by Denise Thomas on April 24, 2009 at 7:56am
thank u :) i looked at this site
interesting about integrating dark and light ... not just polar light and so on
still trying to figure this out for myself
:-D
also, just to add, amorah quan yin the pleaidian lady said in her book that jesus would...
hi gia! THANK YOU for the input :) also i'm curious, do you rest the entire time? if you're taking care of your family, you must be up and about.
what are your thoughts on living a normal life, working while doing this?
I haven't had cable for nearly 2 years, BUT I LOVE...
UGLY BETTY!!
Seinfeld
Gilmore Girls
Sex and The City
Royal Pains
I just watch the new episodes on my computer.
He's still my hero, but I heard the guy was tyrannical and cruel to his family and co-workers. Marlon Brando talked about what a douchebag he was in his book; still though, comic genius.
OK, I guess to me getting rid of anger and envy and fear in ones self before being able to externalize it on a corporate scale just seems common sense as opposed to religious. Is that really religious? Or is it just that he is a Yogi addressing th...
Rome was AWESOME, another fantastic HBO series. True Blood is also pretty cool, but I read the books so it's bittersweet for me. Did anyone else catch Carnivale? That was really well done as well.
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