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I. don't . want. to. meet. your. parents!


Is it wrong to not want to meet your boyfriend's parents? I am currently unemployed and couch surfing at my boyfriends home. I am willing to move in with my mom and end it with my boyfriend because I have an overwhelming amount of anxiety about meeting his parents. Long story short They lived abroad for the majority of our relationship. He has met my family. I have exchanged Xmas gifts to them through him. Never met or talked with his parents. The boyfriend and I have had a very hard relationship (lies, no cheating) I dont feel like we are getting married and dont feel like putting in the effort to meet them if he can't even be honest with me for more than 6 months at a time. What would you do in my shoes?

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Jerry Strong Heart Comment by Jerry Strong Heart on October 27, 2009 at 3:51pm
There is an Inner Voice Here.......Too.......It Seems........!
Zoe Comment by Zoe on October 27, 2009 at 3:11pm
someone once told me that people lie because they are ashamed about themselves. I always remember that when I get lied to, it helps me to make sense of whoever is doing the lying, and not take it personally.
Zoe Comment by Zoe on October 27, 2009 at 3:05pm
It might help you to understand him better if you see where he comes from. Personally I'd meet them out of curiosity. It would not make me feel more committed. If I felt like ending it then I;d just end it, even if I was best buddies with his parents.
If you don't meet them then it might cause resentment. I don't think you've got anything to lose by meeting anyone, parents or whatever. I mean you've already given them Xmas presents, they will be a tad confused if you don't bother to meet them, not that that is any reason to meet them, just saying...
vegsoulsista Comment by vegsoulsista on October 27, 2009 at 2:58pm
Thanks for sharing that I am in deep thought on what to do.
heathers_sea Comment by heathers_sea on October 27, 2009 at 2:40pm
Go with your gut feeling... if you're feeling this much anxiety over it there's probably a valid reason. I was dating a guy... we lived together, I moved back home for the summer and planned on moving back to his city. I had so much debilitating anxiety over moving back that I decided to break up with him and felt better immediately. Take some time to think about what you're feeling, and what you truly want to do.

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