What do you do when you like a guy that drinks beer and eats meat?
I mean at least he doesn't smoke, right?!! But geez...
He found out that I don't drink and it was actually amazing cause he said he would cut down. Which is an amazing step after only talking to him a few times.
I think the key is to just take it one step at a time. I think the beer should go first but then again...who am I to change someone? But then again again, I may be the person that helps show him the way to change?
And on a side WOMAN note :: I could not find myself swallowing...if someone drank beer and ate meat. I don't want the shit in my body!
He found out that I don't drink and it was actually amazing cause he said he would cut down. Which is an amazing step after only talking to him a few times.
I think the key is to just take it one step at a time. I think the beer should go first but then again...who am I to change someone? But then again again, I may be the person that helps show him the way to change?
And on a side WOMAN note :: I could not find myself swallowing...if someone drank beer and ate meat. I don't want the shit in my body!
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Permalink Reply by Michelle Doyle on -
Well my smoking, meat eating husband just impregnated me with that 'shit' and I'm not worried that I'm giving birth to an alien!!
Diet is really important, but not the be all and end all of life.
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Permalink Reply by Melissa on -
lol. Thanks for that. Swallowing is not the most important part of a relationship either. Or at least, I would hope not!
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Permalink Reply by Kim Caldwell on -
Take it from someone 43 and in a 20 year AWESOME relationship with a drinking, meat eating ,ect. man.
Changing someone is not the basis for a good relationship.
Focusing on what you love is the trick and forget the rest.
If you do this you will activate the law of attraction and he will either become more of what you want or he will go away and the perfect one will come.
My favorite trick is to make lists of the things I love about people I want great relationships with .
Works like a CHARM.
BLESSINGS KIM
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Permalink Reply by Breanna on -
DO NOT try to change him. Lead by example. He is a guy. Guy's do not take well to direction/suggestion/nagging.
And if you fall in love with him. Do like I do and love every bit of him and revel in that love. Love has little to do with food. Except that I love him enough to want to cook him meat dishes for the rest of our lives if he so chooses to ignore his health.
I expect to marry the man I'm with, so that is one thing I have to keep in mind. He might be a meat eater for the rest of his life, but if I'm his wife, I can make sure it's organic, grass fed meat and with lots and lots of raw food mixed in.
Hell, I didn't go from meat eater to raw. I transitioned slowly over years without even knowing where my diet was headed. I figure he'll notice the difference and ask for more anyways!
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Permalink Reply by Rawstrength on -
Get him to drink unpasteurized, hops-free beer. It's good for you.
Get him off of factory farmed meat and onto local organic, pasteur-ranged meat.
Instead of making him give up what he loves, you should get him to eat/drink better, healthier versions.
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