Others Who Separate Love...
I could almost say maybe I am too polyamorous... this is something I had issues with as early as high school... I never really had a real relationship because I didn't want to close out all the other people I liked... I was never comfortable with that.
Now I think of people and I have a hard time relating to the boundaries and separation of love for others. I think I can love very easily, anyone who opens up to me I can get to know, I can love, as long as they open up to me too, but many people are very guarded against that, either opening themselves or be open to another, particularly me... I don't have a lot of boundaries up, that seems upsetting to some people. I don't have a lot of rules, just a real connection, that doesn't take much in my opinion... we're all connected we just have to open up to it, right?
I don't know what I'm trying to say, just venting I guess... any thoughts?
Now I think of people and I have a hard time relating to the boundaries and separation of love for others. I think I can love very easily, anyone who opens up to me I can get to know, I can love, as long as they open up to me too, but many people are very guarded against that, either opening themselves or be open to another, particularly me... I don't have a lot of boundaries up, that seems upsetting to some people. I don't have a lot of rules, just a real connection, that doesn't take much in my opinion... we're all connected we just have to open up to it, right?
I don't know what I'm trying to say, just venting I guess... any thoughts?
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I understand all too well what you mean. I too, am very similar in the respect of allowing others into my life with almost no boundaries, as I feel the connection to all so strongly. I believe that are intuition and whatever part of us is the discerning part, is valuable in filtering those who don't serve us positively in a relationship, so in the context of boundaries, I see that is where boundaries are necessary and appropriate. My experience has been very positive in just opening my heart and loving people with little to no pretense or reservation. Not that I am recommending that to everyone, just that I think it can be done and of course if the world were way different and everyone lived from their hearts, than what I am saying would probably be normal and prevalent behavior.
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Lovely thoughts. Similar feelings at my end. More detail later :)
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