Relationships, for guys and gals
This question is directed at those people who ARE in a good relationship. I think it would be a good discussion to help those who are having trouble, so that they can learn a few things about 'how do better their relationships & sex lives'.
So...
If you were to take someone who has never had a decent relationship in their life, and teach them how to pick up, and maintain an awesome relationship... what would you tell them? what gems of wisdom would you share?
What is it that makes a good relationship work?
(Detailed answers please, for guys and gals, cheers)
So...
If you were to take someone who has never had a decent relationship in their life, and teach them how to pick up, and maintain an awesome relationship... what would you tell them? what gems of wisdom would you share?
What is it that makes a good relationship work?
(Detailed answers please, for guys and gals, cheers)
Replies to This Discussion
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Permalink Reply by Kim Caldwell on -
Very good Elliott.
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Permalink Reply by Hextacy on -
@elliott
Lol! That toiletseat ... Lol!(serious voice: you are so right!)
Ow and dont forget:
The flowers you bring have to be wild picked somewhere and the chocolate of course...raw!
Lol!
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Permalink Reply by Kim Caldwell on
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I write out lists of things I love about my husband. Very powerful. I also do this with other people I want to get along well with in my life.
Creates miracles.
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Permalink Reply by Susan Virginia on -
So funny... sometimes my hub will say "do you like me? why?" and then expect me to list wonderful qualities he has. Slightly childish & immature but I think most of us like to be told we're terrific and smart, funny, sucessful, sexy, smell good :D
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Permalink Reply by Kim Caldwell on
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Yes Hextacy a toilet seat kept down goes on the list.
One time my mom was saying how good feng shui it is to put down the toilet seat and I said yes and we do not have the sewer energy running through our home.
Mine is always down.
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Permalink Reply by Chicory on -
learn to laugh at life when things aren't working out.
My fiancee and I will rib each other and all of our grumblings and disagreements end in giggling over how silly we are. We've been living together for 7 years, and so far so good. It's like we just started dating.
Openly communicate with each other, never take each other for granted :)
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Permalink Reply by Amanda on -
Be exactly what you want for yourself, then extend that to your partner.
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Permalink Reply by Todd Meyers on -
Yah thats my amazing girl friend for yaa......
Love u baby
see ya soon
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Permalink Reply by BillionsUponUs on -
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Permalink Reply by peanut on -
Here's a little tool to help you know a good relationship:
From 1-10, rate your lover/relationship:
How beautiful is this person in your eyes?
How interesting/exciting are your conversations?
How good is the sex?
How do you fit with this person's family and friends?
How easy is this relationship?
If you score over 40 overall, you're in good shape.
An old friend showed me this tool -- I call it the RElationship Assessment Rubric (REAR). It tells you when to get out of a bad relationship (exit to the REAR) or get into a good one (REAR entry). :-)
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