Ideal Sexual Experience?
Hi Everyone! Has this been covered before? If not, I am curious what works for you or what you feel is missing. For instance most women prefer to have more cuddling afterwards and the guy is completely distant. ..
How can a woman feel like she is really loved in a relationship? How can there be a positive experience for both people?
How can a woman feel like she is really loved in a relationship? How can there be a positive experience for both people?
Tags: love, porn, sex, spirituality
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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on
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In Norwegian there's "jeg er glad I deg" which literally means something like "I'm happy in you", and "jeg elsker deg" which is basically I love you but much stronger and not said to just anyone. Like "Te amo" in Spanish.
And amen to this:
if you want to feel loved, love yourself first. then you wont need a partner feel "loved", they will simply be part of your life affirming your belief
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Permalink Reply by vrindavancandra das on -
wonderfuly put
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Permalink Reply by Matty Wilson on -
yep...whats that saying or quote......if you dont love yourself how can you really love someone else or anything else for that matter.
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Permalink Reply by Sheryl <--the original! on -
i agree with that
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Permalink Reply by Matty Wilson on
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yo I am a recovering cuddleaholic and it probably smothered some of my girlfriends and I am sure it played a role in the demise of the relationship.
I have noticed that shortly after making the choice to eat only raw living foods I have come into a balance where i do not have that seemingly uncontrollable male sexual urge, desire or judgement when I see a woman who may or may not be attractive to me. Now I can say i feel way more sociable and able to converse with woman in a healthy platonic way. When before I was a raw foodist I was probably like a teenage boy in my head. I was a cooked starchatarian or bread and cheesatarian and we all know how malnourashing that is!!!
This way of life has really profoundly changed my wellness physicaly and mentally. I believe communication is really important in a relationship and manipulation is very detrimental.
Regarding sex in a relationship communication is important and as long as the parties involved honestly agree and are causing no harm then its up to them.
For me I think sex plays a role for sure but now I am seeking companionship and friendship more than sex. There is so much fun to be had in this wonderful world and its always cool to share it with someone.
YAY
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Permalink Reply by Alan Jones on -
It all takes a lot of time, practice and patience which is all part of the learning process like any other skill in life. The natural needs of the male are different to the natural desires of the woman, therefore there has to be a lot of discussion and sharing in a strong relationship so that both parties can untimately be fulfilled with their lovemaking.
The learning is fun, be open and dicuss what you would like your partner to do, before after and during lovemaking.
Some useful reading can be found at http://tinyurl.com/683tju and http://tinyurl.com/636xpn share it with your partner and enjoy the learning experience.
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Permalink Reply by AwesomeUniverse!!! on -
Yeah I think I am too lazy to learn any love-making techniques. I am looking for a deeper existential connection that doesn't have a step by step format to follow. I think most guys want a goddess to fall for and don't think all this other stuff is important. It's funny how people think I need to love myself. I think that that is a cop out in a way. People focus on themselves too much already and not enough on authentic communication.
The physical aspect isn't what is impotant- it's the deeper connections that make something extraordinary.
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Permalink Reply by Raw'r on -
so ask him why do you just hit it and quit it....does he have to be dripping all over your to show u he cares?
I'm not terribly sympathetic...i don't even like hugging people so i can't relate.
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Permalink Reply by peanut on -
I really don't believe men and women are different; it's more that everyone is different. There are a lot of guys out there who are cuddly and clingy -- and lots who are matter of fact about sex or distant or...whatever. Same with girls.
I do notice that men take a lot more responsibility for sex being bad, though. Why is that?
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