Ideal Sexual Experience?
Hi Everyone! Has this been covered before? If not, I am curious what works for you or what you feel is missing. For instance most women prefer to have more cuddling afterwards and the guy is completely distant. ..
How can a woman feel like she is really loved in a relationship? How can there be a positive experience for both people?
How can a woman feel like she is really loved in a relationship? How can there be a positive experience for both people?
Tags: love, porn, sex, spirituality
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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on
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The question is how to cope with this as a human: by knowing this, or feeling this, or living this..?
Dear Lightlover, right out of my mouth, or mind.
Wow, we go through these experiences and think we're so alone in them, afraid to talk about it because it's so, well, unusual and then when we do, we re-unite ;)
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Permalink Reply by Lightlover on -
Glad you feel the same Lorianne, so do you know the answer, or is the question doomed to be unanswered..?
I think many of us here are prepared to give up a lot, for a constant "feeling without deficieny"
and not for new words.
I never wanted the Porsche, I always wanted the feeling of the Porsche without the car;
the real feeling the owner probably not has (because he wants more or something else..).
What else can you want if you get a feeling without lack..?
Maybe we should train this and hide in our feeling of unity and only come out and realize
diversity if it is worthwhile. Or should we be flexible and switch like quicksilver between oneness and diversity..
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I spent 5 years forcing myself to believe the illusion because I didn't know what else to do. What's to want when you are everything? This is how detached I've become, I can talk about it lol
I fool myself all the time, like I'm in need of better health. It gives me purpose, gives me something to live with/for.
What I think is, the mind was created to create and function in the illusion, but when it enters a place of expansion and non-linearity it cracks. So, in essense maybe we have to let the mind child go, but this is so hard. Maybe gradually, by entering the heart deeper, by breathing.
I've just been waiting for more Ones to come to this bus stop to hold hands with :)
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Permalink Reply by Lightlover on
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The mind is the illusion of the "one" which is self-aware that it is dreaming
to be someone who walks, plays, loves etc..
It's a kind of cosmic game I guess.
But I can imagine the universe wants something else than staying the result of a squeeze of one trillion suns in the size of an atom.
(before the BIG BANG).
We are the result of that desire.
We are the ultimate wish of the universe, we can desire to be one and all
at the same time.
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Permalink Reply by Raini on -
A cosmic game is right. A cosmic game of tag between gods. And you are it.
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You have no idea Starfire, how much this has helped :) I feel like making a sprouting plant piece, something that's growing anew, that's how great this change has been :) I have to check that out.
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Permalink Reply by Raini on
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What else can you want if you get a feeling without lack?
Oxygen? And if not that... we exhale for the last time and experience Nirvana. After all the definition of nirvana is to exhale.
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Permalink Reply by Lightlover on
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Haha Lol Raini, you thought I left oxygen out of this feeling...?
Suffocating and saying you are missing nothing is the
highest enlightment of Zen I suppose..
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Permalink Reply by Raini on
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haha I wasn't saying you were missing anything or leaving anything out. I personally feel that the desire for only light and oxygen is the highest state of enlightenment. Next to death.
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Permalink Reply by Lightlover on
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No you didn't say it, I just said you did, I am playing like the universe!
Yes, you are right (can I include water..?).
This means a lot of sungazing next year, are you familiar with that..?
Ok, sexlovers we should go back to the intention of the topic I guess,
but since everything is connected it will go naturaly.
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Permalink Reply by Raini on
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That is what i am saying, the definition of nirvana is to exhale.
nirvana
from Skt. nirvana-s "extinction, disappearance" (of the individual soul into the universal), lit. "to blow out, a blowing out" ("not transitively, but as a fire ceases to draw;" a literal Latinization would be de-spiration), from nis-, nir- "out" + va "to blow" (see wind (n.)).
A last exhalation. The fire ceases to draw.
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