Ideal Sexual Experience?

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Permalink Reply by Raini on December 14, 2008 at 9:18pm

Aho Mitakuye Oyasin

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Permalink Reply by Erica on December 14, 2008 at 9:24pm

I am sexually attracted to people interested in exploring and playing with the kundalini energies.... but love is another huge important factor, the most important factor in my choosing a partner. As of yet I am still a virgin (in this lifetime, hehe), I honestly feel that if I meet somebody I'm truly attracted to on all levels.. too soon... I'll die of ecstasy... my physical body won't be able to handle all the energy...
Sex is a highly energetic phenomenon for me... the physical aspect is not the essence of it in my eyes.

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Permalink Reply by Raini on December 14, 2008 at 9:27pm

Now thats what i'm talkin bout. Sex is Sacred.... Like Steve Adlers Chocolate.

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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on December 14, 2008 at 10:31pm

This made me curious and I googled it.. I've heard the term plenty but nothing beyond that. I assume you know alot about it, my question is.. Is it possible for this to awaken and the person find it devastating that they are so alone in that realization/state? Could it be a bad experience (to the mind and ego) that a person needs to adapt into should it happen out of the blue?

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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on December 14, 2008 at 11:53pm

That explains why it's so scary. I'm gonna go have a cookie :p

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Permalink Reply by Raini on December 15, 2008 at 4:52pm

I would agree with you on that last sentence. How did you ask your partner to rub you while you weren't in your body?

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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on December 15, 2008 at 4:54pm

Starfire I'm so glad you've shared this.

the void (I told my Zen mentor it can only be likened to everything and yet nothing if that makes any sense)

Yes! This was it, terrifying, this big void of all and nothing. The void of creation, like an empty womb.

I felt so out of touch with everything and my body I'd sink my fingers into the earth desperately trying to 'get back in'.

I don't think sex is a hinderance really, I mean nothing is bad when you see that void, it's all just expressions of self. But I guess there are tools to reach that state, celibacy or through sexual practices. It had nothing to do with sex for me though it just happened but there's more to it and I'm waiting for answers.

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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on December 16, 2008 at 10:14pm

Asafoetida:

I'm afraid when you're in a state of panic, it did little help. You really need something to snap you out of it, whatever it may be, so you can be calm and be a bit more understanding of how to deal with what's going on.

I think breathing is the key, I don't know any good breathing techniques but I'm sure there are some out there.

Permalink Reply by Si Dawson on December 16, 2008 at 7:27pm

Bloody vipassana.

Yep, I know exactly what you mean.

That kind of extended meditation - it's very easy to get disconnected - from earth, from ourselves, from our connection to core energies. I saw it happen to people around me, felt the edges of it myself (I'm pretty careful with my energy hygiene, so it wasn't quite as extreme for me).

Definitely though - that wasn't sex, that was the meditation. You won't hit that space again through sex. I'd be willing to bet you wouldn't hit it even if you did another course, since every course (and our reactions to it) is different.

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Permalink Reply by Jef on December 14, 2008 at 11:59pm

Loneliness? I'm lonely, but I don't think its Kundalini!!? What are the other parts of the stage?

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Permalink Reply by Lorianne on December 15, 2008 at 4:18pm

I don't know if this is the same thing Mark talks about, from what I know it's something that just happened and to have an explanation sooner would've been great. - It's not just a tought, or an idea, but reality as you know it suddenly just, evaporizes. Everything's an extension of yourself, where separation and boundaries are illusions and it's right in your face. Since reality as we know and experience it is based on laws of separation and boundaries, well, this is why there's acute loneliness :) Acute boredom is more accurate because the ego and the mind thrive on the entertainment of separation. - maybe if you go all the way you reach a completely new state of freedom and fulfillment, but that's like dying at will, because you completely surrender all you know life to be. After 5 years I was finally able detach myself from it enough to be able to talk about it, I want to talk about it, but it's still a little hard. A really good symbolic representation of this was the movie The Matrix.

It's really nothing fancy or rigorous, it's nothing more than we are one :)

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Permalink Reply by Raini on December 15, 2008 at 4:22pm

You are the one... Lorianne. Now the qestion is... Will you take the red pill or the blue pill?

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