I just found out I was banned from 30 Bananas a Day....

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Permalink Reply by VibinOnLife! on September 9, 2009 at 10:07am

Yes, I know its difficult. When you have been wronged you go back and forth between screw them, i should do something about this, and all kinds of thoughts. Especially when those who wronged you lie about what went down. And I know it hurts because you all were friends and a support system for each other. And I apologize if I made it seem like its so easy to let go of. There are many levels of hurt, deception, and violation here. But this is a part of the process. And regardless of what anyone says, I really do believe there was an element of jealousy with this whole thing. And when people see how strong you are, and that you have your own mind and vision, and they cannot control you...they can't handle it. And then when they rage out against you, and see the support that you have, they really freak out! LOL!

Like they say, if you have haters then you must be doing something right!

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Permalink Reply by Banana Runner on September 9, 2009 at 10:54am

I think that what might be happening here is this: there are to kinds of anger: 1) righteous, justifiable anger that is based on being wronged where you have been violated and it relates to what is right and what is wrong, and then there 2) Self-righteous anger, based on ego and wanting to justify based on that.

RGG was violated in a righteous way, it was wrong what they did, but they don't see it that way, they justify what they did as righteous because of there perspective or viewpoint, and anything outside of that is sinful and any behaviour is justifiable in order to stop the "sinning". Don't get me wrong, this is crazy, but I think this is what is happening. They are turning RGG's righteous anger into something that allows then to justify their unrighteous behavior.

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Permalink Reply by Rawgreengoddess on September 12, 2009 at 8:08am

thanks Vibin..when you put it this way,hmm i must be doing something right..i have had this point of view from lots of supportive peeps actually...xo

oh BR...i get what you are saying,it makes no sense,and its too twisted for words really...apparently i was given this tough love,cos i am held in such high esteem by them,and i can handle it...mmm okay,whatever!if thats love,i want no part of it.Im all up for being challenged and questioned,in a friendly genuine manner,but this was just a whole nother thing.xo

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Permalink Reply by foxy man on September 8, 2009 at 2:31pm

there is nakedfoodcafe.ning started by Connie, who is active here on this thread............

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Permalink Reply by Banana Runner on September 8, 2009 at 2:54pm

I am part of that one and also the Natural Hygiene one started by Michele.

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Permalink Reply by Rawgreengoddess on September 8, 2009 at 5:41pm

Connie is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarm and lovely too and im on there as well,not posting alot yet

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Permalink Reply by Marieq on September 8, 2009 at 2:58pm

I'm a part of both of these. I lurk more than I post of naked food cafe but everyone is really close-knit around there. It's like a little family. I just joined Natural Hygiene too. You should try them Kait :]

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Permalink Reply by Kait on September 8, 2009 at 4:07pm

Profile now pending approval from NFC!

And it's lowfat, sweet:-)

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Permalink Reply by Kait on September 8, 2009 at 4:07pm

Profile now pending approval from NFC!

And it's lowfat, sweet:-)

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Permalink Reply by Rawgreengoddess on September 8, 2009 at 5:34pm

Kait~go to Raw Natural Hygiene...run by my friend Michele..she is amazing,warm,non judgmental.im over there..:)ooops you already have lol

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Permalink Reply by Kelly on September 8, 2009 at 4:30pm

I was also banned from 30 BaD.

No explaination and no warning. I really don't know what I did. Except for say I ate a whole avocado in a day.

I like to add humor to the discussions so people realize that we are human and sometimes mess up and eat a whole avocado. I guess humor is not allowed on the site.

And the more I think about it. The owners of that site seem to have no sense of humor. At least that's how it came across to me. They are WAY to serious about 811 to the point where it is taking over their lives and personalities.

They say they want to help people but when you help others you have to be a real person yourself. You have to have humor, and understanding and love in your heart. I think those people are missing that. If they once had it..it's slowly going away because of the power trip they get from being quasi famous.

They get kicked off other sites but it's ok to kick others off their site. They don't even remember where they are coming from. And makes me wonder if they know where they are going. So I see no direction in that site. It's going down hill fast.

I was reluctant to be on this site because there is now a section for raw meat. When networking and sending people to websites..I don't want to send peoplle to a site that condones raw meat eating.

So add me as a friend if you used to be on the 30 BaD site. I would like to get all my friends back and more.

There is a solution.

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Permalink Reply by Rawgreengoddess on September 8, 2009 at 5:36pm

hey Kelly,add me as friend ..great to see you again..i watched your buzzy humor on those posts..you bad bad girl,its no laughing matter you know,lol....ridiculous..two people i regarded as great friends,i now see as unrecognisable,one especially doesnt have their own words anymore,just a clone of the other,very sad...

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