Permalink Reply by Gil on December 7, 2008 at 12:47am
Dhru,
Thanks for caring enough to make the tough calls and moreover, for continuously trying to increase the value of this community.
If it weren't for GI2MR, I would've had little incentive to stay raw for just about a year now. So just wanted to let you know that I (and I'm sure most of us) sincerely appreciate what you bring to this community.
Permalink Reply by Uti on December 7, 2008 at 1:05am
Thanks so much for stepping in with some positive energy Dhru. Like you, I've been feeling it's not enough to remove the trolls when there is a leadership void. There are so many with boundless positive experience in our membership that can be used to shed a little light on the path. That's my definition of Guides - people who are still working on themselves; growing and changing and shining a little light on the path behind them as they go. Gurus are fixed and in the box.
Permalink Reply by Saz on December 7, 2008 at 1:06am
Wise words :) Thank you for addressing this Dhrumil, the negativity going on previously was turning me off the site. Well done. I agree with everything you said.
Excellent point about not just removing the negative but also adding positive. Definitely applies to healing too.. and, I suspect, everything (as you point out with food, friends, community...).. and thoughts, words, behaviours... :)
Another possibility re increasing the positive aspects of the site might be to have a "best of" - just highlighting those conversations (no matter how old) that are exemplary, that are supportive, loving, informative, AND hold differing opinions. Would be a good guide for new members - might help set the tone.
I haven't noticed anybody being negative, but than again I have not had a lot of time to be as involved on here as I'd like. I think it's a great idea, and you have such creative ideas! Anything that will allow for more support and positive role models is worth a shot. I think it is far more effective to lead by example than to simply punish or ban. I've had some rather negative experiences in real life with raw foodists who, instead of leading and sharing with me when I was not in the place they were with-they simply excluded me...sometimes people who are not at your "level" have good intentions, but are just lacking in guidance. Excellent idea, and best wishes on it!
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And they are raw?? I feel like I have seen them at TJ's but for some reason I did not think they were raw. This is exciting. That sounds so good right now.
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Have you ever??