Child birth Orgasm

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on May 31, 2009 at 7:33pm

wow Ev.....
sounds amazing.... did u have to train for it?
or just being raw,loving and knowing how to breath and be in touch with ur instincts was enough?
was ur husband there with u the whole process?

thanks for taking the time to anser!

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Permalink Reply by Reena Kumar on May 31, 2009 at 7:39pm

Wow, I've never heard such a thing before. I always thought birth is supposed to be incredibly painful. So did you not take any painkillers? Had you been eating a totally raw diet for a considerable time before your births? I am very curious as to why the experience would be so painful for other people while you and others found it enjoyable. It would be great to learn more. I'm in the health/medical field myself, and this sort of thing seems pretty unheard of to me. I'll have to check out the website you mentioned.

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Permalink Reply by Albert on May 31, 2009 at 7:34pm

is it difficult for women to achieve an orgasm? this is all very mysterious. . .

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on May 31, 2009 at 8:36pm

amazing...thanks so much for sharing!!

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on May 31, 2009 at 8:37pm

can I ask if it's true that the vagina never gets back as before?
especially after twins..did u/ur husband feel a difference?

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on June 1, 2009 at 7:50am

thank u so much ev... i'm learnin a lot thanks to u!!!

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Permalink Reply by Zoe on May 31, 2009 at 8:48pm

i've heard of Hypno Birth where they basically re programme all the words you use to describe what happens at a birth, and re name everything, and de-brainwash you about what giving birth could be like. And it creates painless, orgasmic birth experiences. And also I knew a doctor when I was child who was a hypnotist, he used hypnosis for women in childbirth and they had painless birth, he was th consultant anesthetist at the local hospital!
I remember Jinjee - of Storm and Jinjee www.thegardendiet.com describing her 5th raw birth. Her partner was giving her oral sex during labour, she said it was a blissful birth!

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on June 1, 2009 at 8:03am

what about the fact that they say if the man witnesses the child delivery then he kinda looses interest in sex with that woman?
it this appliable just to what i call "sex-idiots"?

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Permalink Reply by Katya Rawshine on June 1, 2009 at 8:10am

yes, same mentality I guess that makes a man want a baby to stop breastfeeding so he can have his boobs back. I met some men who appeared to be absolutely floored by the experience - mine did not get off sex, but I guess it did affect him slightly. Others seem to flourish... There is an opinion within the holistic birthing circles that really, man should not be pressurised into being there, which is often the case, because they are not programmed to it. Some men do emrace the role completely though and are invaluable during the process. "We birth as we live". Jeannine Parvati Baker (RIP).

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on June 1, 2009 at 8:13am

of course i think for a woman it's nicer to have the man kissing,huging and caressing...but hey..if that has to lead to him seeing u as a non-sexual being then no...
anyway I'm not pregnant,I'm single too..but my maternal instinct is really strong and i feel i need to learn as much as i can to be ready for my babies..

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Permalink Reply by Katya Rawshine on June 1, 2009 at 8:04am

All of htis is true. Hypnobirthing is excellent way to get you and your partner (birthing partner, doesn't have to be the father) into the state of relaxation and trusting the process. I knew very little with my first birth, and was psyching myself up for an unassisted birth, which it would be - and a fine one for that! - if midwives did not arrive and put me on my back. Second one was better - and the third one was - well, not orgasmic, but blissful nevertheless. I did have a midwife, but she completely stepped back, it was dark, in the pool, and I delivered the head myself with a lot of vocalising (thinking I was singing, which my partner still laughs about, cos he thought I was rather shrieking). I would say that the most important part of preparation for the birth itself is working with fear. Recognising it as a inhibitor, one can turn the fear into a positive affirmation. For instance - "I am affraid of pain" becomes "I am aware of the strength of the sensation dueing labour and am welcoming it" etc. One word of caution, though, when listening my hypnobirthing tape with my third pregnancy, the tape got stuck. So I had "stuck" in my head, and guess what - shoulder dystocia and subsequent assisted delivery (only manual, with midwife, on all-fours - what's called Gaskin Manouver) Other than that, ladies, we are such a clever creatures - we can have our births and enjoy them. Blessings, to all.

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Permalink Reply by Veronica on June 1, 2009 at 3:42pm

i put the same thread on ASW and everybody is making fun of it...why are people so closeminded?!

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